TIME GAME

Before commencing with the topic, wishing you all a very happy Valentine’s Day.

Time heals and Time hurts. We meet different types and kinds of people at different phases in our life time.

Some are good

Some are not so good

Some bad

Some Caring

Some selfish

Some self-less.

Some support our point of view.

Some will understand without words. Some will never find time to focus on process of listening. Listen to understand and not to respond immediately.

Find those who can lend their ears to hear explanation, who is actually ready to invest their time just to understand you. Proving can never make a justified person.

And give time only for those who respect you. Some initially will love to speak and initiate talk with buttery – lovey words by devoting their time but will it last long is a big question still searching for an answer. And the known answer would be “Not always”.

 

 

The person whom we think important may not think the same way. In the passage of time life journey pathway, people part their ways away. We may be thrown out from their life just as ‘ DuSt of SaNd’.

 

Getting into any relationship and destruction and devastation of the same can be made in a jiffy. But maintaining it needs understanding.

 

And the pain that the loved ones gives us is more than the Physical Pain that we endure and coming out of it is also in the hands of Time.

Experience, that people provide you is a great lesson. Certain people enter in to our life only as temporary happiness and some prove to be a lesson than a blessing in disguise.

 

“Good memories hurt as they are good and bad memories hurt as they are bad”. Saying “GOOD BYE” has become an easy task in this modern civilized trendy world where there is no place has been reserved for emotions.

One thing to get reminded of before concluding, before ending any relationship if we think why were we holding it so long can make any relationship more stronger. Make sure your self-respect is provided care for but if it gets lost because of the other person, then consider mental health above all as that is more important to spend rest of our life time.

 

In time game never tame.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE SUBTLE JOY OF BEING LONELY

“Loneliness” is ecstatic when one realizes it in the exact manner. For some it may be mentally excruciating and agonizing. But it is always righteous to learn the art of living lonely.

Give yourself sometime of loneliness and aloneness secluding from all the gadgets and people.The process and the feel that you endure is inexplicable.

While feeling lonely ,
“Listen to a music that is tranquilizing,

Enjoy the nature

Be kind and help someone

Connect to a friend who can comfort and shoulder you

Involve in some work of creativity”

Loneliness is something that paves pathway to know ourselves unfathomably exceedingly  better.It is the time that you can utilize to screw up your thinking and thread up the ideas together to implement in the future days.

The time space will allow us and provide an opportunity to recarve ourselves which avoids reincarnation. 

The inner self analytical thoughtful process of reasoning arises only when you are alone and when your mind is at peace.

It will aid you and intimate that if it is YES it is a YES to a certain decision and you ought to go for it .NOTHING SHOULD STOP YOU. And in the sameway, if it is NO, nothing should COERCE you.

There is also another view of perception need to be concentrated at about this aloneness it sometimes may create perplexity of confusion and leave us puzzled so it is preferred to enjoy the moment of loneliness BUT not ALWAYS (REMEMBER TO SPEND TIME WITH FAMILY AND WITH YOUR LOVED ONES AND ALSO WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE IN NEED OF YOU).

This can be discussed from various angle but this is sufficient to have a basic preliminary idea of how it needs to be approached.

Finally to conclude,

“GET ON TO THE BOARD

IT WILL TAKE YOU TO THE ROAD

WHERE YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN MODE OF LEADING”.

"OPPORTUNITY - A WINDOW LOCK"

“OPPORTUNITY KNOCKS THE DOOR ONLY ONCE “was a very old anecdote to  quote.

IF “OPPORTUNITY DOES NOT KNOCK YOUR DOOR BUILD A DOOR “was trending its peak in recent times.

But the greatest intellectual who made the above statement have not even once thought or wondered that “WHO WILL PROVIDE THE PORTAL TO BUILD THAT PARTICULAR DOOR”. Everything needs to be assigned and aligned in such a manner that it should fit into places that has been designed.

Delegation is simple but authority to answer the decided  delegation is DIFFICULT.

Life is a game and to win in that game you need to LEARN the rules by experiencing it.Because no one has learnt it the way it has to be.

But just to survive or exist and persist in that game you just have to be patient and observe and apply what is best to your heart. 

Sometimes it will replicate a very amazing fruitful result and sometimes it will provide astonishing consequences.

Howsoever we need to run behind life it will pull you back like a rubber elastic band where you need to move accordingly by making twists and turns.

Prediction and Practicality are two opposite corners where it requires a bridge to fill the gap that is in existence.

Whenever a decision needs to be taken there is always sustenance of doubts that is perplexing inside in a baffled manner.

Give some time let it stay and the sediment will settle down and then with turbulent mind if we think again a great solution will reach our mind to proceed with our further progress.

We are walking in the path of such a life where someone knows the DESTINATION and not the DISTANCE of it to attain and reach it.

The thorny ways will always lead to successive destination chapter but how far we are able to walk through the path even without any safety prevention is a question needs to be addressed.

In totality, Whatever happens ,life is a journey to be enjoyed. LEAD IT ANYWAY.

   

 Understanding the PROPOSAL OF LIFE IN A GIVEN  PORTAL is always bewildering and is MYSTIFYING.

Anyways,

“KICK START YOUR GEAR ON

ACCEPT AND MOVE ON”.

"LOCK AND KEY GAME "

“Be the lock and key of your own life. Don’t just be the lock and provide your key to some one else.”

 

YOU?????????????OMG???????

Here lock is what is you, YOUR COMPLETE YOU, 

Your    

perceptions ,

belief,

trust,

choices,

opinions,

challenges,

opportunities

threats

why did i do it?????

 Everything in totality and key is the solutions for all the fastener mentioned above.

Don’t give your life choices to be chosen by some other who can do that for you on your behalf even if they are very trustworthy who can make and aid you in all the walks of life.

No one can understand that every thorn in life cannot be explained deeply. Because during the process of telling them and expressing it , it pricks more deeper than before.

For example: If you want to do a professional course after your higher education proceed with your goals. The time is yours and the achievement is yours and at the same  time whatever the bitter effects ,the failures, the struggling stones, the difficulties, the pain involved,the perplexity,  the hassle everything to be crossed to earn the fruit of achievement.

When you don’t try and fight for what you want, then there is no point in crying for what you have lost and what you have not got in your life.

Just take the experiences from everyone whom you think can seriously provide you with the solution and can guide you in your way of life. But you decide and be ready to take all the risks that is coming up.

Don’t blame others with lame reasons.

If you want to be understood. Primarily, take an initiative to understand others, and your own circle of people. Understanding is a great tool of instrument which everyone in this world expects. 

To conclude simply,

“BE THE DESIGNER OF YOUR OWN LIFE

BE THE DECIDER OF YOUR DESTINY

AND DESTROYER OF OTHERS OPTIONS FOR YOURS”.

“FAR FROM HOME”

 “This blog is specially dedicated to all HOSTLERS who are leading their life in a place away from home due to some situation and to achieve their goals.”

When we are away from home especially for a longer period of time, outside world will teach us everything on all aspects of how to lead a life in the mirage of so called “Jungled earth surrounded by human beings”.

If you want to know what HELL is Explore into the universe of HOSTEL and if you want to trace what HEAVEN is even for that enter into the dramatic stage of HOSTEL.

Hostel life will show you:

What food is?

What hunger is?

What peace is? 

What sleep is? 

What passion is? 

What pleasure is?

What people are?

What love is? 

What sharing is?

What caring is?

What hate is? 

What dignity is?

What self respect is?

What tolerance is? 

What patience is?

What silence is ?

What noise is? 

What truth is?

What pain is?

What Loneliness is?

What sacrifice is ?

What satisfaction is?

What self centered means?

It also teaches you on how to act wearing different masks to different people without any prejudice. We will know who are the ones surrounded by us are honestly TRUE to us and who are FAKE and just maintaining FICTITIOUS relationships to get things done from us.

You will know and come to understand about persons in real world environment.There are loved ones who MOVE AWAY your TEARS and there are FOLKS who MOVES AWAY when you SHED TEARS.

The IRONY of LIFE can be well experienced through HOSTEL life. You will be welcomed with lush green pine needle carpet where you have to WALK with your bare foot. You want to scream out and shout out sometimes very hardly but you definitely cannot do, instead you try to deviate yourself with a simple smile on your face.

Even when we want to explain our sufferings to the person whom we  think understands us well better, even they get annoyed and boredom by our repeated talks. And at the end we become silent spectators and dumb, paying no interest on anything and started to live like a sentimental HUMANOID.

In totality it chases the lesson of Adjustment and adaptability even. It is a never ending story. Ultimately and to conclude EVERYTHING has to be BORNE by in order to achieve great things in life. To sum up HOSTEL LIFE is,

“VERY HARD TO LEAD

DIFFICULT TO SUSTAIN but 

STILL HOLD ON and 

BREATHE IN.”

Just to attain the ULTIMATUM.

BEING RIGHT

“BE A BAD PERSON AND LEAD A GOOD LIFE RATHER THAN BEING A GOOD PERSON AND LEADING A BAD LIFE”.

If you lead a good life automatically you will turn out to be a good person.

Love can heal anything but it also HURTS the person . There is no great and better teacher than LIFE.

Life is also an  endeavoring facilitator where you can make all the trial and error method to get something in the exact shape as you preferred.

Whatever you wanted to do just do it.Go for it. Don’t have a second thought of what others will think.

Whatever you do and however you do there is always perception that crops up in others  mind. Ultimately they are in their comfort zone enjoying their life, it is only you who is losing the real you.

Try your level best and till your last breath “not to lose yourself “,it is difficult but gaining back to the stronger person as once you were is even more difficult.

 And Losing ourselves for someone else is another thorny pin where even the thinking pierce us and tear us into pieces.

Time will make us understand but the gap between where you lost and the process of finding out or regaining back to normal can never be explained with words nor even with emotions.

SILENCE that is the only answer that you can give whoever asks for name sake about your well being.

This world will SMASH you and THRASH you for whatever you are just DON’T pay any heed to it. The problem is not about whether it is GOOD or BAD, it is  about whether it is RIGHT. Surround yourself with the right person and realize your own worth. Honestly, there are enough bad people out there in this world to DESTROY your thoughts as well as the whole YOU.

The most evil social animal is HUMAN BEING. They are unpredictable. Don’t depend and trust them blind foldedly. Apply your mind to it. “A minute of thought can create wonders”.

Just don’t live for the world and society that surrounds you . If you do so definitely the time is not far away where you need to search and find yourself which takes a longer duration. By that time exorbitantly you would have missed many moments in life which can never be reverted back. So,

THINK

ACT  and

REACT accordingly.

THE SEARCH

                                               “Search yourself.

 Stand up for yourself. If you are not standing up for   yourself, no one else will.

Value them who value you”.

Shower your love only on those who deserves it. Your hate on those who worth it. Never pay any heed to those who think that you need to plead and fall on their feet for the mistake that you have never committed.

Don’t be a scape goat in life. Lead your life. Follow your PASSION. But ensure that the passion does not turn out to be POISON. Passion should result in giving PLEASURE. It must enhance and uplift you in your progress.

We may meet many people in our life.

Many people come across our life.

We meet all not by accident, there is always a reason behind it.

A lesson to be learnt from everyone is accompanied by the respective person.

Life is a great teacher. It teaches the same chapter in a unit again and again and again until you get well versed in it.

There is an instance to quote. I have a friend who is very optimistic, fun loving and caring . she always respects and treats everyone  with great care(the greatest mistake that she committed) , because of this everyone started to take undue advantage on her and just approached her whenever things needs to be done.

She had a person who was under the name blanket of “friend” but who is really not. Problems can make a relationship stronger but not always. And the fake friend upfront started avoiding her. 

But my friend still tried maintaining friendship with her which is not at all worthy, because ultimately she is the one who gets hurt inside.

So, there may be such sort of instances that might have taken place or may take place even in your life. Keep up yourself as you.

Don’t lose yourself for such unworthy person. Those fictitious person don’t even form a thread line in your part of whole fun filling life.

Just avoid and move on.

“LIFE IS TO LIVE

NOT TO LIE DOWN AND CRY.

GET UP AND START MOVING ON”.