"LOCK AND KEY GAME "

“Be the lock and key of your own life. Don’t just be the lock and provide your key to some one else.”

 

YOU?????????????OMG???????

Here lock is what is you, YOUR COMPLETE YOU, 

Your    

perceptions ,

belief,

trust,

choices,

opinions,

challenges,

opportunities

threats

why did i do it?????

 Everything in totality and key is the solutions for all the fastener mentioned above.

Don’t give your life choices to be chosen by some other who can do that for you on your behalf even if they are very trustworthy who can make and aid you in all the walks of life.

No one can understand that every thorn in life cannot be explained deeply. Because during the process of telling them and expressing it , it pricks more deeper than before.

For example: If you want to do a professional course after your higher education proceed with your goals. The time is yours and the achievement is yours and at the same  time whatever the bitter effects ,the failures, the struggling stones, the difficulties, the pain involved,the perplexity,  the hassle everything to be crossed to earn the fruit of achievement.

When you don’t try and fight for what you want, then there is no point in crying for what you have lost and what you have not got in your life.

Just take the experiences from everyone whom you think can seriously provide you with the solution and can guide you in your way of life. But you decide and be ready to take all the risks that is coming up.

Don’t blame others with lame reasons.

If you want to be understood. Primarily, take an initiative to understand others, and your own circle of people. Understanding is a great tool of instrument which everyone in this world expects. 

To conclude simply,

“BE THE DESIGNER OF YOUR OWN LIFE

BE THE DECIDER OF YOUR DESTINY

AND DESTROYER OF OTHERS OPTIONS FOR YOURS”.

“FAR FROM HOME”

 “This blog is specially dedicated to all HOSTLERS who are leading their life in a place away from home due to some situation and to achieve their goals.”

When we are away from home especially for a longer period of time, outside world will teach us everything on all aspects of how to lead a life in the mirage of so called “Jungled earth surrounded by human beings”.

If you want to know what HELL is Explore into the universe of HOSTEL and if you want to trace what HEAVEN is even for that enter into the dramatic stage of HOSTEL.

Hostel life will show you:

What food is?

What hunger is?

What peace is? 

What sleep is? 

What passion is? 

What pleasure is?

What people are?

What love is? 

What sharing is?

What caring is?

What hate is? 

What dignity is?

What self respect is?

What tolerance is? 

What patience is?

What silence is ?

What noise is? 

What truth is?

What pain is?

What Loneliness is?

What sacrifice is ?

What satisfaction is?

What self centered means?

It also teaches you on how to act wearing different masks to different people without any prejudice. We will know who are the ones surrounded by us are honestly TRUE to us and who are FAKE and just maintaining FICTITIOUS relationships to get things done from us.

You will know and come to understand about persons in real world environment.There are loved ones who MOVE AWAY your TEARS and there are FOLKS who MOVES AWAY when you SHED TEARS.

The IRONY of LIFE can be well experienced through HOSTEL life. You will be welcomed with lush green pine needle carpet where you have to WALK with your bare foot. You want to scream out and shout out sometimes very hardly but you definitely cannot do, instead you try to deviate yourself with a simple smile on your face.

Even when we want to explain our sufferings to the person whom we  think understands us well better, even they get annoyed and boredom by our repeated talks. And at the end we become silent spectators and dumb, paying no interest on anything and started to live like a sentimental HUMANOID.

In totality it chases the lesson of Adjustment and adaptability even. It is a never ending story. Ultimately and to conclude EVERYTHING has to be BORNE by in order to achieve great things in life. To sum up HOSTEL LIFE is,

“VERY HARD TO LEAD

DIFFICULT TO SUSTAIN but 

STILL HOLD ON and 

BREATHE IN.”

Just to attain the ULTIMATUM.

BEING RIGHT

“BE A BAD PERSON AND LEAD A GOOD LIFE RATHER THAN BEING A GOOD PERSON AND LEADING A BAD LIFE”.

If you lead a good life automatically you will turn out to be a good person.

Love can heal anything but it also HURTS the person . There is no great and better teacher than LIFE.

Life is also an  endeavoring facilitator where you can make all the trial and error method to get something in the exact shape as you preferred.

Whatever you wanted to do just do it.Go for it. Don’t have a second thought of what others will think.

Whatever you do and however you do there is always perception that crops up in others  mind. Ultimately they are in their comfort zone enjoying their life, it is only you who is losing the real you.

Try your level best and till your last breath “not to lose yourself “,it is difficult but gaining back to the stronger person as once you were is even more difficult.

 And Losing ourselves for someone else is another thorny pin where even the thinking pierce us and tear us into pieces.

Time will make us understand but the gap between where you lost and the process of finding out or regaining back to normal can never be explained with words nor even with emotions.

SILENCE that is the only answer that you can give whoever asks for name sake about your well being.

This world will SMASH you and THRASH you for whatever you are just DON’T pay any heed to it. The problem is not about whether it is GOOD or BAD, it is  about whether it is RIGHT. Surround yourself with the right person and realize your own worth. Honestly, there are enough bad people out there in this world to DESTROY your thoughts as well as the whole YOU.

The most evil social animal is HUMAN BEING. They are unpredictable. Don’t depend and trust them blind foldedly. Apply your mind to it. “A minute of thought can create wonders”.

Just don’t live for the world and society that surrounds you . If you do so definitely the time is not far away where you need to search and find yourself which takes a longer duration. By that time exorbitantly you would have missed many moments in life which can never be reverted back. So,

THINK

ACT  and

REACT accordingly.

THE SEARCH

                                               “Search yourself.

 Stand up for yourself. If you are not standing up for   yourself, no one else will.

Value them who value you”.

Shower your love only on those who deserves it. Your hate on those who worth it. Never pay any heed to those who think that you need to plead and fall on their feet for the mistake that you have never committed.

Don’t be a scape goat in life. Lead your life. Follow your PASSION. But ensure that the passion does not turn out to be POISON. Passion should result in giving PLEASURE. It must enhance and uplift you in your progress.

We may meet many people in our life.

Many people come across our life.

We meet all not by accident, there is always a reason behind it.

A lesson to be learnt from everyone is accompanied by the respective person.

Life is a great teacher. It teaches the same chapter in a unit again and again and again until you get well versed in it.

There is an instance to quote. I have a friend who is very optimistic, fun loving and caring . she always respects and treats everyone  with great care(the greatest mistake that she committed) , because of this everyone started to take undue advantage on her and just approached her whenever things needs to be done.

She had a person who was under the name blanket of “friend” but who is really not. Problems can make a relationship stronger but not always. And the fake friend upfront started avoiding her. 

But my friend still tried maintaining friendship with her which is not at all worthy, because ultimately she is the one who gets hurt inside.

So, there may be such sort of instances that might have taken place or may take place even in your life. Keep up yourself as you.

Don’t lose yourself for such unworthy person. Those fictitious person don’t even form a thread line in your part of whole fun filling life.

Just avoid and move on.

“LIFE IS TO LIVE

NOT TO LIE DOWN AND CRY.

GET UP AND START MOVING ON”.

THE UNBOUND SILENCE

“Find yourself where you lost”. In order to do that you need to trace the path exactly. 

In life, many challenges may come filled with thorny difficulties. In all the circumstances you are allowed to CRY, You are allowed to SHOUT, you are allowed to SCREAM, you are allowed to MOVE AWAY, but you are never ever permitted to QUIT from LIFE.

 If life is not ensuring PROGRESS in the chosen path, then there is a mantra to be followed which is quite difficult to implement “CHANGE YOUR PATH AND CONTINUE THE JOURNEY”. Try living a life filled with cherishing and relishing memories. Be with the crowd who makes you comfortably HAPPY.

LIFE is seriously a MYSTERY to be discovered. SOLUTION to mystery hidden in life is a MIRAGE. While mapping the lost path try locating what is that made you lose yourselves.

Bring out that PASSION in you. Life many times will thrash and smash us. But when we walk back in the same path again we will be able to find out where the path is filled with QUICK SAND and where it leads to exact DESTINATION.

QUITTING from life is not allowed but QUITTING from the decided path line where it deserves nothing to you irrespective of continuous SLOGGING is very well allowed. 

“Those QUITTERS never become WINNERS 

           INSTEAD

They become greater of the greatest SUCCESSORS”.

Life will always aid in showcasing how TOUGH it is. 

Now it’s time to show life how TOUGH we are. 

If this is executed, LIFE will turn back to us and will say 

“DEAR TOUGHER TRY the TOUGHEST ME and make me WORTH WHILE with your SMILE”.

         

SOUND OF SILENCE

“Sound makes noise .SILENCE creates voice”.

All the words need not be spoken out for understanding. In fact, unspoken words have more vibrant power than the spoken ones. It is a known fact that Smile solves the problem while SILENCE avoids the problem.

SILENCE can be defined as a “universal code” which everyone can understand provided the person must be in a position to read the mind. Introspection can be done in SILENCE.

Night means SILENCE. It taps all our senses to recognize and realize who we are. SILENCE is a beautiful princess to those who can see it. Peace can be attained in SILENCE.

Honestly to say SILENCE is always louder than noise. Sometimes, SILENCE is taken as a sign of ACCEPTANCE but it is not so.

SILENCE beautifies everything everywhere. If a person is silent it does not mean he / she is out of the borderline. It means he / she does not want to engage in noise by creating a meddle.

In order to achieve something greater in life, peace of mind is required in this monotonous world mechanism which can be attained by experiencing and by hearing the phrases of SILENCE.

It calms down your mind and improvises the thinking process.Evaluation to proceed with newer development phase is created.

SILENCE aids in identifying exactly who you are.

When words become unclear, I shall focus with photographs. When images become inadequate, I shall be content with silence(ANSEL ADAMS)

SILENCE  is a  true soul healer  to those who was  wounded by noise. Everything will happen at the right time and you will definitely shoot up high touching the sky. till then  DON’T HURRY AND DON’T WORRY.

“STAY CALM

STRATEGISE AND

MOVE ON”.