“Be the lock and key of your own life. Don’t just be the lock and provide your key to some one else.”
Here lock is what is you, YOUR COMPLETE YOU,
Your
perceptions ,
belief,
trust,
choices,
opinions,
challenges,
opportunities
threats
Everything in totality and key is the solutions for all the fastener mentioned above.
Don’t give your life choices to be chosen by some other who can do that for you on your behalf even if they are very trustworthy who can make and aid you in all the walks of life.
No one can understand that every thorn in life cannot be explained deeply. Because during the process of telling them and expressing it , it pricks more deeper than before.
For example: If you want to do a professional course after your higher education proceed with your goals. The time is yours and the achievement is yours and at the same time whatever the bitter effects ,the failures, the struggling stones, the difficulties, the pain involved,the perplexity, the hassle everything to be crossed to earn the fruit of achievement.
When you don’t try and fight for what you want, then there is no point in crying for what you have lost and what you have not got in your life.
Just take the experiences from everyone whom you think can seriously provide you with the solution and can guide you in your way of life. But you decide and be ready to take all the risks that is coming up.
Don’t blame others with lame reasons.
If you want to be understood. Primarily, take an initiative to understand others, and your own circle of people. Understanding is a great tool of instrument which everyone in this world expects.
To conclude simply,
“BE THE DESIGNER OF YOUR OWN LIFE
BE THE DECIDER OF YOUR DESTINY
AND DESTROYER OF OTHERS OPTIONS FOR YOURS”.